Don't ever force someone to love else you will never be happy
Youāre real gem š„¹ā¤ļø
I met him back in senior high school. We were classmates and soon became boyfriend and girlfriend. After graduation, I got admitted to Valley View University to study nursing, and he promised to support me through school. I was so happy and grateful because I knew nursing was my dream, but I didnāt have the money to pay for it.
At first, everything seemed perfect. He helped me pay my fees, bought my books, and encouraged me every day. I felt lucky to have someone who believed in me and my future. We even got married while I was still in school, and I thought we would build a good life together.
But then, I started noticing things that didnāt feel right. He was often distant on the phone, sometimes secretive about where he was going. One day, a friend told me she saw him with another woman. My heart broke. I didnāt want to believe it, but I couldnāt ignore the feeling inside.
I was confused and scared. If I told him I knew, he might stop paying my school fees. What would I do then? I needed to finish my nursing degree. But I also felt hurt and betrayed. I didnāt want to live a lie or stay with someone who didnāt respect me.
Every day, I asked myself: Should I confront him? Should I keep quiet to protect my education? Or should I find another way to support myself and be honest about how I feel?
I realized that my education and self-respect both matter. I deserve honesty and love, not just financial support. I decided to talk to a trusted counselor at school to get advice. I also started looking for part-time work to help with my fees, so I wouldnāt feel trapped.
I know it wonāt be easy, but I want to finish nursing and build a life where I am proud of myself. I am learning that love is not just about money or promises-itās about trust, respect, and being true to who I am.
I met him back in senior high school. We were classmates and soon became boyfriend and girlfriend. After graduation, I got admitted to Valley View University to study nursing, and he promised to support me through school. I was so happy and grateful because I knew nursing was my dream, but I didnāt have the money to pay for it.
At first, everything seemed perfect. He helped me pay my fees, bought my books, and encouraged me every day. I felt lucky to have someone who believed in me and my future. We even got married while I was still in school, and I thought we would build a good life together.
But then, I started noticing things that didnāt feel right. He was often distant on the phone, sometimes secretive about where he was going. One day, a friend told me she saw him with another woman. My heart broke. I didnāt want to believe it, but I couldnāt ignore the feeling inside.
I was confused and scared. If I told him I knew, he might stop paying my school fees. What would I do then? I needed to finish my nursing degree. But I also felt hurt and betrayed. I didnāt want to live a lie or stay with someone who didnāt respect me.
Every day, I asked myself: Should I confront him? Should I keep quiet to protect my education? Or should I find another way to support myself and be honest about how I feel?
I realized that my education and self-respect both matter. I deserve honesty and love, not just financial support. I decided to talk to a trusted counselor at school to get advice. I also started looking for part-time work to help with my fees, so I wouldnāt feel trapped.
I know it wonāt be easy, but I want to finish nursing and build a life where I am proud of myself. I am learning that love is not just about money or promises-itās about trust, respect, and being true to who I am.
In every relationship, make your intentions clear.
Always communicate with your partner how you feel about him or about yourself at any point in time.
Always put yourself first, never compromise in your relationship especially in matters regarding your mental health and well being in all aspects of your life.
Never assume things in ur relationship ( it kills both sides ) also communicate when there is a problem
About relationship I look forward to be treated like a queen ( which my man is doing ) and also never assume in ur relationship both sides aren't mind readers
Well Iām in relationship with this guy who is cool understanding, loving and supportive but Iām loosing feelings for him and Iām catching feelings for someone else I donāt know what to do
Hi Irene
That IDF thing must stop please
Hi
I love you babe
hi babe
I'll be coming to Ghana
Would you want us to get married this year?
Irene how are you
Youāre soo kindā¤ļøš„¹keep it up and God and bless you for that